SHOULD THERE BE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?

Sex before marriage is a topic that strangely had more people agree to sex before marriage than NOT.  I had to agree with the ones that was all for it because they actually made alot of sense.  The truth is how do you know your partner's likes and dislikes if you never went there prior before your marriage.  It's a little awkward to pull out a composition book the night of your honeymoon with highlights of your spouse's hot spots.  I believe that a marriage without sex previously is a road to deception, std's, infidelity, unwanted children, and the list goes on and on.  I mean suppose that your husband is impotent or worse his sex is whack.  Sex after marriage is placing a bet and not being able to renege on it.  However, a union not ordained by God normally last a little longer. I had the pleasure to speak with three women on the subject and I would like for you to click on the link to hear their views. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvRzuvGtNmI
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