Women Should Marry At Least 3(x)'s

I was talking to my cousin/friend/Godmother tonight.  She told me the craziest thing that actually made alot of sense.  She stated that a women should be married at least 3 (x)'s.  Here's the reasons:

1. Twenty's.  Women should marry in their twenties for financial stability.  I guess this is when the women is really just getting out on her own and it will be wise to have that financial security as a back up plan.
2. Forty's.  Women don't normally become in tuned with their sexuality until the age forty.  I guess that is why it will be best to marry for a second time around at this age.  I think it has alot to do with being upfront with our partners of what we want  from them sexually.  Who wants to be forty-five and haven't experienced an orgasm in their life not once?  I'll go for that one.
3. Sixty's.  This is an age for companionship.  I guess when unmentionables aren't working like they use to, we all need companionship.  My grandparents are great companions.  They argue, look at television together, and holler at each other because they both can't hear.  Sometimes, they even start to look alike to me.  She'll kill me if she read this.

Well, there you have it.  Those are Just Kissie views on marriage.  I kind of like them.  What do you think?  I would love to hear your comments. Thanks for all the love and support and may you be blessed abundantly.  Peace.

GETTING AROUND TO DOING THE RIGHT THING

As I am sitting here alone thinking I just busted out laughing.  You know us meaning "African Americans" will find a way around everything.  We put a lot of thought into things that we know is wrong just to get around doing the right thing.  For instance, income tax time.  We will go the extra mile to find three extra kids to claim as a dependent so that we could receive a hefty refund check.  We'll go to The Department Of Welfare and say that we had an one nightstand  in order to stop child support for our babies daddy.  We'll get the lady next door to falsify babysitting papers to pull a fast one over on CCIS.  I'm just saying that time and energy we put into all of this and much more it would've been much faster to do it the right way.  Just a thought.  Enjoy your day!  And thank you all so much for your support. 

LIES AND BETRAYAL OF A SCORNED FEMALE

Yesterday, I sent out a post of a 21 yr.old woman that was infected with HIV.  She allegedly received it from her ex-husband.  The accusations were questioned by fellow Islamic Sisters.  She was trialed and condemned for exposing such without proof.  Not only did alot of females including myself reached out to her but, money was sent as well to assist with providing much needed medication.  Not only was alot of people saddened by this story.  But, her message sent a warning.  We must practice safe sex.  Diseases don't have discrimination laws against age, sex, sexual preference, race, weight, etc. This was very serious and hit a little too close to comfort for some.  Before, I go any further about this issue I would like for you to read what was posted today by the perpetrator.

Nasir Wallace I'M SORRY FB FOR PUTTING THAT ON THERE.  IT WAS ALL A LIE.  I WAS JUST MAD THAT HE BEAT ON ME AND HAD ME LIVING IN A ROOM WITH NO HEAT AND FOOD.HE ALWAYS CHEATED ON ME CUZ I ALWAYS HAD BACTERIA VAGINOSIS..SO I WAS JUST UPSET SO I WANTED TO HURT HIM LIKE HE HURT ME..THAT ADDRESS THAT I PUT ON THERE IS A FALSE ADDRESS BECAUSE I LIVE IN PHILLY.  I'M A SCORNED BITCH THAT'S WHY I DID THIS TO HIM .SORRY FACE BOOK.  AND I'M NOT MUSLIM ANYMORE.

This my reader's is the test result of the ex-husband who allegedly infected her with HIV.

This is horrible because one lie just affected millions of people.  Not only did she lead others to believe that she was betrayed and deceived but, she endangered this man's livelihood.  She had Muslims going against each other all because she is scorned.  This woman didn't acknowledge the fact that others would be hurt from this.  All I can say is May God Have Mercy On Her Soul.  Please read and share comments.  Thank you guys so much for your support and may you be blessed abundantly.